Before anything else, first, accept your life is not like any of your other friends who are still under marital slavery. Prepare yourself and start collecting evidence to counter her cases and defend yourself. Do not close channels of communications and never use any provocative words from your sides. Don't jump and file any case in Family Court. Neither for restitution of conjugal rights nor for divorce. Maintain a record of all the conversation you have regarding your dispute. Also maintain a record of your presence, with a timestamp if possible, especially for weekends/holidays.